1. Where is “The Mansion?”
The Mansion is located near (10 minutes) Bordentown, NJ (NJ Turnpike Exit 7). The reason why the address isn’t public knowledge is because we are a very private and exclusive group. Everyone who attends our parties must RSVP, regardless if they’ve attended in the past. This policy prevents surprises and unwanted guests at the door; for our protection and yours.
2. Is “The Mansion” a club or a house?
The Mansion is a house of course but has a “man cave” (finished basement) that is set up just right for lifestyle entertainment. It’s well equipped with five real beds, seating for over 50 people, music and adult videos.
3. How do I become a member?
Becoming a “Resident” is very simple. You just have to attend a party! If you want to be on our email list just send us an email with your request (couplahustlas@gmail.com). If you want to receive announcements right away; send me your cell phone number in order to be placed on our text message list. If you’ve never attended one of our parties you still have to send a picture of yourself for verification.
4. When are the parties and where are they posted?
We have parties mainly on Friday nights, Friday Fantasy Fulfillment Party,” starting at 9 pm. We host our themed events on Saturdays: Fight Night (Boxing & UFC), Masquerade, Holidays and Special Attire). We have daytime and night time parties on Wednesdays for those who just can’t get enough. We also cater to the women in our group who’d like to meet during the other days of the week (except Sunday). This format is called, “The Underground” and announced as soon as the day of. The parties are posted on Facebook, Fetlife.com, and the Swing Lifestyle (www.swinglifestyle.com ).
5. How do I register for your parties?
You can register on Facebook, SLS or Fet Life. All have the functionality that enables you to sign up. PLEAE DON'T ASSUME LIST YOU SEE REPRESENTS THE TOTAL ATTENDANCE OF THE PARTY.
You can also email us directly: couplahustlas@gmail.com. If you’ve never attended one of our parties, you must submit a picture of yourself (face shot) and guests. We use pictures to verify everyone at the door.
6. What’s the environment like?
The Mansion has two levels: “meet n greet” area and a “play” area. Both areas are romantically candle lit. The hosts are always available to answer questions and to help you make connections. The atmosphere is very chill and relaxing. The music (R&B) is just loud enough for you to hear it. We have separate bathrooms for men and women. A shower is available to be used so please do.
We have a DRAMA FREE environment so please remember that when attending our events. There’s no pressure here. We ASK everyone change into their play gear upon the completion of introductions. If you want to chill and watch, you can do that. Everyone is welcome to go at their own pace. If you want to do everyone, please do...there’s absolutely no judgment here.
7. What can I expect?
- Once you make contact with us and commit to attending a party, you will be asked to provide a picture of yourself and your guests.
- The details (address) will be sent to you prior to event. The party starts at 9 pm.
- Upon arrival you will be greeted at the door and offered the “nickel” tour.
- You will be taken to the play area. We love seeing everyone’s reaction when they see it for the first time.
- Most people congregate in the “Meet n Greet” area initially. You don’t have to wait for introductions to start playing. Around 11 pm (or when the major of attendees are present) everyone is asked to move to the play area for introductions.
- During introductions the house/party rules are read and then we ask everyone to give their name and play styles.
- After the introductions, if connections haven’t already been made, the first round of play time begins.
8. Who are the “Men of the Mansion?” -- TAKING APPLICATIONS
If the ladies aren’t happy, the party isn’t happening! We have a group of men who attend the parties regularly. In order to be considered to be one of the “Men of the Mansion,” we have to receive unsolicited feedback from the ladies about you. If you think you have what it takes, come represent! If we receive feedback, we’ll approach you about becoming a permanent member. In exchange for free entry into the parties:
- We ask you to be available to attend the majority of the parties.
- We ask that you promote the parties and bring in new people
- Monitor the party to ensure the rules are being followed
- Last but not least, continue to do what got here!!
Please let us know if you have any questions for us to address
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Hope to see you soon!!
KD and TaTa
